Blue, still no good at finding the camera icon.
Spent ages looking for this family, thought I had found them and then...... the Margaret ATKINSON (that I had married and moved from Kendal to Liverpool in 1809 ish and died there after 2 more marriages in 1846) found her on the 1851 census with her brother William , alive and well, living in Strickland Roger, Gray Rigg Kendal.

So back to the drawing board. Joseph VARLEY, b 1781 in Aysgarth Yorkshire and a member of a Quaker family until he moved to Kendal. His parents did leave the church to marry , but all children were reintroduced to it. Marriage to Margaret Atkinson by licence in Kendal. Not in Quaker Church as I can see. I have a copy of the licence. But no parents for Margaret given. Holy Trinity most probably. He was a leather dresser. They moved to Liverpool after the birth of Samuel in 1809 in Kendal. Their 2nd son Joseph b 1810 in Liverpool and baptised after his father's death 10 Feb 1811 at St Peter's. He then vanishes.
I have Joseph seniors death and burial in Nov 1810 St John's. Any info on Margaret from the register's would be nice. or what happened to son Joseph??
Thanks